Ling's Theory of Balls
Rule 2: "Have Balls"
Here's a marker in the ground at the outset. The TOB is not gender limited (see here). In the 'Smart' stakes, I married up a couple of notches and my kid sister left the UK at 17 years of age (!) for a life in America (and what a success she's made of it too). Of course, gender plays a big role in life. Only a politically correct idiot will tell you different (there's a few of them about mind you). The 'outcome' effects on your life as a result of your sex are both internal and external - in many cases people treat you differently (external) based on it and you (internally) behave differently because of it. But one thing's for sure, having the courage to choose what you want to do is something both absent and found in males and females. Have the (metaphorical) Balls and take responsibility to make something that you want of your own life and be accountable for your actions - whether you succeed or fail. Time's too short to do otherwise. To see the TOB in full visit: www.GarysBalls.com